Dolores A. Bender

Apr 21st, 1936 - Sep 27th, 2015

Visitation:

Johnson-Hughes Funeral Home

Thu, Oct. 1st, 2015 10 am - 12 pm

Service:

Johnson-Hughes Funeral Home

Thu, Oct. 1st, 2015 12 pm

Burial:

Egyptian Memorial Gardens

Thu, Oct. 1st, 2015

Dolores A. Bender, 79, of the Lake of Egypt, passed away on Sunday morning, September 27, 2015 at 4:25 am at Heartland Regional Medical Center.

Dolores was born on April 21, 1936 in Herrin the daughter of John and Maggie (Paglia) Bione. She grew up in Herrin where she attended Bandyville School and graduated from Herrin High School in 1953. She studied radiology in St. Louis, Missouri and became a certified radiology technician.

Dolores married Donald Bender on April 7, 1957 and together they have shared over 58 wonderful years of marriage.

She was an active member of St. Mark’s Episcopal Church in West Frankfort serving as a Bishops Warden. She also enjoyed serving as secretary of the Sunset Harbor home owners association. Dolores held a life long love for her dogs, fishing, camping, the mountains, cooking, and playing cards and slots with her friends.

She was a caring Mother and Grandmother who especially loved travelling with her husband to spend time with her grandchildren.

In addition to her husband, Donald, she is survived by their son, David Bender (Susan) of Beech Island, SC and daughter Donna Evangelous (Ralph) of Wilminton, NC; two grandchildren Tyler and Kaitlyn Evangelous; her sister, Jeanette Ervin Palmer, sister-in-law, Elaine Kirkman of Energy; nephews, John Ervin and Randy Kirkman; and nieces, Cynthia Ervin (Thaler), Kimira Kirkman (Benton) and Sherry Kirkman.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

Memorial services will be Thursday, October 1, 2015 at 12 pm at Johnson-Hughes Funeral Home in Herrin with The Reverend Sherry Black officiating. Inurnment will follow at Egyptian Memorial Gardens. Visitation will be Thursday from 10 am until the time of service at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Mark’s Episcopal Church in West Frankfort or the Humane Society of Southern Illinois.

 




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8 Guestbook Messages

  • Guest: Bill & Lorraine

    From: Rantoul, Illinois

    Date: September 29, 2015

    Sorry for your loss, you are in our prayers and thoughts.

  • Guest: Charlotte & Bruce Holliday

    From: Herrin, Illinois

    Date: September 29, 2015

    Don and Family:

    We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Delores will truly be missed.

  • Guest: Deborah Pass

    From: Herrin, Illinois

    Date: September 30, 2015

    Dear Don and Family:

    My prayers are with you in this time of great loss. Today members of the card club recalled numerous wonderful qualities of Dolores. I feel blessed to have known her as a dear friend. She will be greatly missed. God bless each of you.

  • Guest: Alex Tamadon

    From: Wilmington, North Carolina

    Date: September 30, 2015

    Dear Donna,

    I extend my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Cherish the memories that you shared together and I promise it does get easier. I wish there was more that I could do or say to ease the pain- My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

  • Guest: J. Miles

    From: Fort Worth, Texas

    Date: September 30, 2015

    My condolences to the family on the loss of your loved one. Losing someone you love is truly difficult and I know Delores will be missed. Please know our heavenly Father holds out promises that can help us with our sorrow. One such promise is that death soon will be done away with forever (Revelation 21:4) and another promise is that “there is going to be a resurrection.” (Acts 24:15) I pray these promises from God, who cannot lie, (Titus 1:2) bring you comfort

  • Guest: Carolyn Rice

    From: Johnston City, Illinois

    Date: September 30, 2015

    So sorry to learn of your loss. Delores was a childhood friend of our family and we shared fond memories of her parents and my daddy Vego. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  • Guest: Achilles & Betty

    From: 47 Arnold Street, Marlbirough, Na, Illinois

    Date: October 1, 2015

    Our deepest sympathy to the Bender Family. Dolores will be missed. We remember our last family get-together. A wonderful family time & wonderful memories.

  • Guest: Joan Tidwell Scott

    From: Albuquerque, New Mexico

    Date: October 7, 2015

    The beautiful sky full of hundreds of balloons this morning has suddenly become very dark. My prayers and love go out to you Don and family. Delores and I had a long and very special friendship.